Category Archives: Men

The Pain Of Being In Love With Someone You Can Never Be With

LoveLove is a tricky thing. It varies in intensity and in the specificity of emotions. It is sometimes the most beautiful thing in the world and, at other times, it’s the most horrid thing we’ve ever come face-to-face with.

It’s odd how one thing could be the cause of so many contrary feelings. But that’s what makes love so beautiful – it’s the closest thing to perfection that exists in the world, the only thing that can easily and comfortably encompass both good and evil, beautiful and ugly.

It’s the closest thing to a flawless whole that man has ever claimed to have been part of.

When we think of love, we think of the happy kind of love, the kind that is the beginning of something beautiful – something that breathes life.

There is, however, another kind of love, a much darker and sadder kind of love. It’s the love one feels when one loves someone he or she can never and will never have.

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Breasts, a gentlemen’s guide

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We notice them. We admire, we imagine, we long. Sometimes women reveal very little, and we muse on what we can’t see. Other times women invite us in, and we can’t believe how lucky we are.

Heed this knowledge, and you will learn, in a very respectful and honest way, what every man craves: more access to breasts.

The basics

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In a study conducted at the University of Vienna, researchers found that large breasts were about 24 per cent less sensitive than small ones. “This is probably because the nerve that transmits sensation from the nipple is stretched,” says Dr Alan Matarasso, a plastic surgeon in New York City. Stimulate the outer sides of her breasts, just below the armpits, with your tongue or fingertips. Make flipping motions with your tongue and even experiment with light nibbling.

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6 Times Never to Be Friends With Your Ex

It’s one of the biggest clichés of all time: “I want us to still be friends.”

Ex-BoyfriendFrom statements of celebrity splits to impromptu break-up texts, to speeches in front of middle-school lockers, there is a notion in our culture that breakups should be sweet and amicable. It’s often assumed that the best way to end a romantic relationship is to magically embark on a close, happy, friendship — where everyone is thrilled, and both parties smilingly tease each other about his video-game habits or her fondness for vintage brooches.

But does this fantasy ever work out, and is it even wise to try for it? Can you really be friends with someone you dated — even if he knows you better than anyone else? Do any great — or even average — romances ever end by segueing into a strong friendship?

The answer, many times, is no. Sometimes, of course, it can happen — with time. But certain conditions must be met. Here are six signs that should tell you that “Let’s just be friends” may not be your best option (as discussed in detail in The Friendship Fix):

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His and her thoughts on fake boobs


Is bigger always better, even when they’re fake?

fake-boobsShe says: Hell no. It’s not worth the money, the trouble or the risks

Just the other day I was having a conversation with a friend about the pros and cons of getting your boobs done, the essence of which can be traced back to a few choice words: “expensive”, “implant rupture” and “Wonderbra”. I’m a lass with boobs that sit (rather pertly) at the smaller end of the size scale, and I’ve certainly pondered the benefits of making them bigger. But for me, it’s just not worth the cost, the risks and how the surgery can negatively impact your life.

First, they’re fake and they’re expensive. Just like heading to Thailand to buy a fake Louis Vuitton handbag, you still come back with a lighter wallet and fake goods. And from some male perspectives, fake boobs don’t even feel like the real deal.

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Second, there’s the risk of cancer – not from the implants themselves but from the risk that they can obstruct the view of a tumour during a mammogram. There’s also the risk of something going wrong during surgery (certainly low by all accounts, but a risk nonetheless). And then there’s the risk of not liking the damn things once they’ve been done.

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Why we think we need more sex

couple-and-sexDOES more sex make for a happier relationship? Here we look at whether quality triumphs quantity.

The chances are that if you’re having sex regularly, you’ll be pretty pleased with your relationship. If you’re getting more nooky than the people around you – or you think you are – you’ll be even happier. A new study has found we don’t just want to keep up with the Joneses and have a bigger house, a faster car, or a better body. We want to be more successful in the bedroom, too.

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REJECTION. We’ve all been there. And it hurts like hell.

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The surprising way to deal with rejection: how our brains help mend a broken heart

So what are you to do if you’ve been snubbed by a friend? Given the cold shoulder by a colleague? Or worse, find yourself on the sad side of an unrequited love affair?

It turns out help is much closer than you think.

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Sex myths busted

sex mythIt’s true that in the complicated and convoluted world of sex, myths will always abound. But a slew of research has disproved some beliefs, mostly based on long-held, gender-based stereotypes. It seems, contrary to what pop psychology books and magazine covers would have you believe, women are not from Venus, nor are men from Mars. Herein we dispel these and other commonly held sex myths.

1. Men are more interested in casual sex than women

FALSE: Despite what sitcoms since the 1970s would have us believe, men are not all out to spread their seed on endless one-night stands. Professor Terri Conley from the University of Michigan recently reviewed an oft-cited 1989 study which supported the theory that men are more interested in casual sex. In that study researchers trained young men and women to proposition strangers for sex.

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Women’s “Not So Secret” Dictionary

This post is actually more for the men. If you are having trouble understanding your lady. This dictionary might help you. I had a good laugh reading this. 😀

Nine Words Women Use

1. Fine:  This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

2. Five Minutes:  If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the football before helping around the house.

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Mile- high ‘meet and greet’

One airline is planning to allow people to view other passenger’s Facebook profiles when choosing their seats.

A blind date at 35,000 feet?

Forward thinking Dutch Airline KLM has come up with a new way to keep its passengers happy, and possibly be responsible for some match-making at the same time. The airline is planning to introduce a new ‘meet and greet’ initiative next year that will allow people to view other passenger’s Facebook and Linkedin profiles when choosing their seats.

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Embracing the Taboo: World’s Top Red Light Districts

Many people prefer to sample the culture of the cities they visit from the safety of well-lit avenues, museums, and historical monuments. While there is a great deal to be learned from these things, cities often has a whole other side, perhaps a darker one, but colorful nonetheless, that is left unexplored. While venturing into the red-light districts of unfamiliar cities isn’t for everyone, for the more adventurous it can be an interesting and sometimes enlightening experience. Here are a few of the most famous and exotic red light districts you can explore on your next vacation.
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